Taking responsibility: who owes whom and to whom?

Men should take responsibility. Otherwise, they are not men... Several beautiful women have already sent me phrases of similar content after the article Sex and money: what do people have under masks?.

The most common one is: "If a person doesn't take responsibility for you, it's not your person." I don't know where the girls read it and listened to it at the same time. Although... Now there are enough women's forums about what "men should do". But on these sites, the opinion of the opposite sex is usually not present. And men are unhappy... And men are indignant...

Men believe that they should take responsibility only for those women whom, by their definition, they have already "absolutely" chosen. For those who make them happy.

In the male sense — and in the long—term perspective of living together — it's simple: not to take out the brain (this is a controversial definition for me), not to demand daily declarations of love, not to terrorize financially... And "in life" — to be kind and loyal.

Loyalty, by the way, is in the first place of the rating of a female personality. And, of course, men agree that they first fall for looks, and then evaluate internal qualities. But they always evaluate. And... well, yes... I almost forgot about the notorious sexuality! After all, she is now such an important "component of success"...

So that everyone wants me!

So...

The main indicator of typical female sexuality for a man is to want him and only him, because all other males have the right to exist, but compared to him they fall short or "just suck."

The main indicator of typical male sexuality for a woman is to want her more than anyone else in the world, because she is "the only one". And keep telling her about it... And worship her... And to please in every possible way. But...

There is a nice nuance in the attitude of the majority of modern humanity towards themselves.

Many women and men need to be wanted by everyone!

The condition of people who seek universal worship can be characterized by the term "infantile neurotics." They can be irritated by any external stimulus. Any dropped word can bring them to a boil. He is used to being offended about anything. And also...

They always consider themselves to be right and knowledgeable. They create "wonderful" neurotic families! And they really like to talk about someone else's responsibility when they themselves suffer from constant internal helplessness.

Desires and anxiety

For a woman's perception, the statement about "must take responsibility" looks simple, clear, accessible. Only men and women understand the word "responsibility" differently.

Many women mean that men have to pay for their desires. And this is acceptable. Often a man cannot emotionally express feelings, but shows his concern through gifts and money. Only — as always — there is a "small" catch...

A woman's desires grow in direct proportion to her anxiety!

That's why women dream of heroes from novels and TV series. Indeed, a strong-minded man can calm a woman just by his presence. Only, unfortunately, many ladies dream of strong ones, but agree to any, justifying themselves with the stupid slogan "if there were a cute one nearby."

Burn bridges with the past

For a strong man to "take responsibility" for the woman he loves is to burn bridges with the past. And when he commits himself to such obligations sincerely, under the influence of the impulse of love, then he becomes happy from this state. Because he is important, necessary, necessary.

And the woman he patronizes becomes relaxed and creative on such a drive, and the man... A man can become a fairly successful representative of society, even if he did not particularly strive for this state.

Men become rich out of desperation! Because it's either him or no one. All. It must be so necessary.

A man goes into business like a barricade and wins because he has a family behind him. He has his Homeland behind him. I know that this expression sounds pathetic, but it's true. Some women do the same if circumstances have put them in a difficult financial situation. We talked about this in more detail in the article "Women's money: do you want more or have more?".

A strong man is ready to die for his Homeland, for his Family — for a Global Idea.

A strong woman is ready to die for her children. Children are her Global Idea.

Strong men choose strong women. Because only a strong woman can fill a partner with energy for achievements.

Strong women choose strong men because only such people inspire their admiration. Strength in this context is a mentally healthy approach to reality. At this stage of civilization's existence, it is a rather rare phenomenon.

Conscious people always take responsibility for the condition of their partners, for their actions, and for their happiness.

And, of course, when I talk about strength, I mean mercy, acceptance, kindness ...

Yes, it is from these qualities that lightness develops, which outwardly manifests itself as the most exciting and charming sexuality... Well, what could be "sexier" than kindness?..