Analysis of hypnotic beliefs

I will describe the stages of working with human simulators so that the logic and sequence of actions are clear.

Before Using the method, we select the person who caused the pain from the previously compiled list. We analyze the relationship with him and ask questions. A clearly posed question is already a huge step towards success. There is no answer to the right question. I don't know. He always responds with sensations in his body, so you can't go wrong with the answer.

Only those people can hurt you, from whom you are not protected. Your inner circle. Of course, you may be offended by the cashier in the supermarket, but on a one-time basis in human communication, if he does not personally bring you physical suffering, a tangle of neural tormentIt's not being formed. If you are in a state of being upset by the behavior of strangers, then the origins of these disorders have already been formed by loved ones. Let's look at a few typical schemes.

Algorithm of actions in three stages

The first stage

Mother — father

Take the relationship between the father and the mother as a basis.

Remember that it is necessary to consider the father and mother not as relatives, but as objects. This way you will be able to analyze their behavior patterns. You examine your worldview dispassionately and find points in which you copy your father and mother. Even if you seem to yourself to be an ardent rebel who has formed himself contrary to their beliefs, then I remind you that genetics cannot be canceled. Temporarily shut up your ego-heroism as a poet and admit:

• I'm modeling a mother's behavior. In what way? Enumeration.
• I'm modeling my father's behavior. In what way? Enumeration.
• I copy their relationship in my personal life. How?

So, you ask yourself the following questions:

• What "code words" have you heard from your parents?
• What did your mother/father tell you in childhood about you and your future?
• What did they tell you in your youth about your first love? Although you were certainly sure that this is exactly the person who "forever".

We remember and write it down.

Let's say a mother could use such concepts in relation to her daughter. Here are the most common, and personal formulas for non-success, add them yourself:

• All men are the same.
• So you'll never get married.
• You'll be alone.
• You are a bad hostess.
• Who needs you like this?
• So you'll sleep your whole life away.
• Happiness must be earned.
• You are very trusting.
• How are you going to live?!
• You should marry a decent man. (In the concept of a mother, for one who pleases her.)
• You'll have a hundred more like this one. (A variant of the discussion of the first love.)

Many phrases of close people became hypnotic and laid the foundation for personal life, social communication, and financial condition.

Your memory is like a tunnel consisting of different layers. And these layers need to be obtained by rewinding the past. And realizing that there is neither a past nor a future for your brain. This means that everything embedded in the past is hurting you right now. And what you feel now shapes the options for the future.

Analysis of hypnotic phrases

These phrases are hypnotic because the child does not know how to defend himself from his parents. Working with the past, you constantly ask yourself the question: "What do I feel?".

For example, it hurt you when Mom yelled at Dad. He was silent and it seemed to you that Dad was defenseless. It seemed that she was unworthy of him...

So, which words caused you the most pain?

It is in childhood and puberty that a particularly violent reaction to bright and humiliating words occurs, backed up by raging hormones.Fear of the future is forming in your mind, because even the closest people do not understand you and do not support you.

The consequence of their impact on your psyche is your aggression, like an outburst of resentment. The result is that in your brain, neurons fold into lumps of pain, creating a hidden hatred that hides under the guise of depression in adulthood. And it's understandable. To say in society: "I am in depression," anyone can. This is acceptable. A say: "I hate!". Oh, how you will be judged: such a vivid emotion is so "indecent"!

Of course, as we work with human simulators, we add all other relatives to our mother and father: sisters, brothers, grandmothers and grandfathers. Well, you got it.

If you had an incomplete family, if your parents divorced, then we are especially anxious and fiercely working on the separation of your parents, which you most likely regarded either as a betrayal of your personality personally, or considered yourself guilty of their divorce. But this is not essential for our practice.

Of course, you can immerse yourself in the psychological analysis of the ordeals of your ancestors if you want to practice creating a causal relationship with your life. Perfectly! Just, please, do without labels — who was there in what is to blame... It is not necessary to evaluate. Let people do as they want, even in a personal matter such as their own past.

The most important thing for your real job is to describe exactly how you felt. According to the points. Because the events of biography, in which emotions are not embedded, do not form neural connections. These are just facts from the past without "magical effects" on the present and the future.

So... When you worked with relatives, you recorded hypnotic phrases that influenced you from various former lovers, husbands, wives, business partners, colleagues at work.

Fear of repeated pain

I often ask people to say or write to me what they are afraid of. And kind people respond with very similar phrases. An example from a beautiful woman's letter.

• I'm afraid to meet a man.
• I'm afraid of intimacy.
• I'm afraid to experience the pain of betrayal again.
• I'm afraid to fall in love and let them fall in love with me.
• I'm afraid of meeting with former partners.
• I'm afraid when someone touches me.

If it makes it easier for you to work with the simulators of the past, you can register your fears. At the heart of all the above fears is the fear of pain. More precisely, the fear of repeating the pain. So ask yourself the question: "Why?". And you answer every "fear ".

Example.

• Fear. I'm afraid of men.
• Why? Because such and such a person betrayed me.
• How did he do it?

You remember. You mark the highlights. And these are the circumstances you are working through Trataku. And, of course, you prescribe in practice 40 days: "I hate such and such a person for...".

The second stage

Limitations of the physical body on love and sex

Now you are considering the limitations that pain situations have laid down. Often the limitations of the mind are associated with the physical body.

For example, restrictions on the love of your body.

Aggression — resentment — hatred of the body.

Restrictions on love

Approximate reasoning: "I will only be with such and such a person, I don't need others." And then there is a list of qualities that you write down on paper, in a notebook of important things, or in your mind. And this list is starting to work. You dismiss everyone who, in your far-sighted view, is not suitable. And look for those who match. And then you force yourself to fall in love with an invented image. And you meet the right person.

Let's say a man has formed an attitude that his wife should be a modest and obedient housewife. In order to obey him, do not contradict him. The man thinks: "How can you not agree with me? I know better! I am the leader!". Well and all such stuff from the established script according to the course of the play.

Yes, he finds similar women, but... It's huge, but he's bored with them. Such a man needs to live with a lady who will keep his testosterone in good shape. And the guy will be on the drive. With the one who answers the words you must obey me", with a simple phrase —"and don't go you, my dear...". And neither his bank account, nor his philosophy, nor his muscles, nor his self-esteem can affect this phrase of an uncomfortable woman. It is with such a woman that he will be happy and successful, even if their views on the world order do not coincide in many ways.

An example for women.

You have prescribed in your mind: A man should be kind, smart, responsive, caring, handsome, etc.". And here you will find a portion of cosmic humor. Some of the most important qualities you have not taken into account. Let's say you forgot to specify a mere trifle not married, thinking that it is implied by itself.

No. Not implied! You meet a married man, you fall in love, you suffer, you break up. In 95% of cases, you break up. And again you go on another round of delirium. Now you take into account the new data, but you forget to register, for example, he is not gay. And etc. You are walking in a circle.

People are given to us only for joy

Cosmic laws, which I sometimes call cosmic humor, should not please you and should not be convenient for you. You are trying to control the outside world, but you cannot even control your thoughts and emotions. This is absurd! Therefore...

When you try to control a situation based on images based on the pain of the past and the limitations of the mind, you get a response from the quantum world. Even those desires that are fulfilled later bear disappointments.

Money... Man... Woman... Family... They appear in life, but you are unhappy again after a while. All of them are not the same. If over the years an awareness based on experience comes, then you finally say honestly: "I don't know who is right for me." And you stop imposing your flawed scenarios on God, fate, brain, and soul. Because the consequence of human stupidity is pain. And you brought her into your life.

Remove restrictions from the mind and remove restrictions on suitable people.

A person comes for love only according to one principle: your condition next to him should be easy. You should have fun and interesting together.People are given to us only for joy. They are like cherries on the cake of our bliss.

Restrictions on sex

The consequence of restrictions on love is restrictions on sex. A typical manifestation is comparing your body with others.

You are not doing something in sex because it is unacceptable, but because you consider yourself ugly. The body is not toned enough. Not pumped up.

Women love the following postulates:

• The breasts are not as big as those of his previous women.
• The ass is not at all pumped up.

Men:

• There are no cubes on the press, like that guy from the gym over there.
• The biceps have somehow shrunk in size.

I will not expand on this topic. You will remember enough options for humiliating your own body without me.

Options for protecting the body from the limitations of the mind

The most typical mdash; weight, which is called "excess ".

For example, here I will lose weight and be loved more.

It is impossible to love more or less. You either love it or you don't. You are either loved or not.

The lack of orgasm is also a typical limitation for women. Impotence in men is the same. Of course, hormonal changes in the body lead to such conditions. For example, one of the most common is excessive emissions of the hormone insulin, i.e. a constant desire to eat something tasty problems. But the problem of the mind is always a question that you don't want to solve. Solve — and dependence on carbohydrate foods, on sweets, on alcohol will leave you.

Restrictions on food

I write especially for women who are always losing weight.

The fear of being fat ugly sometimes leads to the fact that there is a restriction on pregnancy in the brain. The girl slimmed herself for a long time with strict diets and exhausting sports, then got married and wanted a child. And the child does not turn out. Why? Very simple. Years spent trying to be thin. Now the brain, and therefore the whole body does not believe the girl. And a woman begins a journey of trials to prove to her brain and body that she wants a child.

The third stage

Partners

Prescribe the restrictions that make you like a certain person.

We take a typical female scenario. Men will read and quickly understand the logic.

It seems to a woman that a man is so cool that she is unworthy of him.

So, why do you think he's cool?

Let's say he has a great body. And you have — in your opinion — there is still a lot to improve.

He is rich. He is used to wealth, and you have a poor house compared to him.

Another option: he has a skill that you don't possess. For example, he rides a horse perfectly, drives a car... Or he knows martial arts. Or sings. Or dancing. Or composes poetry. Or he plays the guitar. Or making money.

And now we turn on the brain and realize.

• A person's skill is not his own.
• His paintings are not his own.
• His songs are not his own.

And the fact that a person has a lot of skills does not mean that you will be happy together.