Yes It will be Better This way

You are often told that you need to keep a positive mindset. They claim it. They insist. But they don't tell you how to do it. Many people do not know this "how", so you are offered to take pills that motivate you to a "happy life". This is a popular technique for erasing consequences when the reasons are not clear.

The pharmaceutical technology of absorbing "pills of joy" is working. Making a lot of money out of your suffering, who wants to heal you? It is not profitable. It is beneficial to aggravate suffering and create dependence.

Will I resent the fact that "bad uncles and aunts" keep humanity under control, and people are unsuspecting victims? No, of course not. They only do to you what you allow them to do to you.

Capitals are created and multiplied on pain and depression. Naturally. But they don't put pills in you. They are only offered to you, but you use them yourself. The law of free will has not been violated. Think about it. Not broken! Therefore, it is not necessary to call for retribution on the heads of those who "do business by providing services." They only produce what is in demand. Everything is obvious. Society does not want to look for the causes of suffering in a person. It is more pleasant to blame the external world for internal inconveniences.

The cauldron of abstractions

In the article Crisis of Power I wrote about preachers who make you look for balance, calmness, harmony. They certainly present the right theories. But usually in such mental constructions there are no actions that would force the brain of a suffering person to reconsider the map of life. Words, words, words...

Encouraging words have become customary to pronounce on any disturbing occasion: "keep balance", "be in harmony", "become strong", "we must hold on", "think positively". The expressions "open your soul", "open your heart", "live in the stream" are also sent to the same cauldron of abstractions. It sounds beautiful. And it's really wonderful to live like this. Who's arguing? But... It's always a strange "but"...

There are a huge number of comforting sayings. There are many teachings and teachers. There are a lot of psychological and psychotherapeutic methods. They are tested and working. But you can't change the facts. More and more people are falling into a prolonged peak of depression.

95 percent of the world's population is now in this condition of varying severity.

People are tired of life. People are afraid of life. And the pills work right away. That's why most people choose antidepressants. After all, everyone wants everything at once. And healing from suffering, among other things. This is the sign of the current time — "give me quickly."

Two directions of pain

Humanity is divided. Followers of the postulate of "thinking positively" gathered in one party, while those addicted to suffering gathered in another. The third and smallest stratum is happy people. Against the general background, they are almost invisible, but they are the most effective.

"Positive thinkers" are forced to hide their despair. It is necessary to be on the drive and smile during the day, and at night to drink and party. They are forced to believe that only such rabid positivists will move up the career ladder, become successful and rich. Who in the office likes to look at a sad face? The dull ones scare away customers and consumers. As they say: "You can't sell an elephant with this mood." And people actively sell their "positive emotions" to earn money. And they quietly go crazy after months of "strained joy."

The other direction is depression addicts. They've been on antidepressants for years. And they have been cultivating suffering as a religion for years. You can't blame them. Their brains have determined that this behavior is most beneficial, because when you suffer, you attract increased attention and care.

Do you remember how good it was as a child? You caught a bit of a cold, and your parents left you at home. Wrapped up, fed. You don't go to school and you can watch fairy tales and cartoons all day. And you also painfully ask for something delicious to be bought for you. And they bring everything to you and put it neatly next to the bed. And no one is swearing at you. And you don't have to do your homework.

What happens on these happy days? The child feels power and a rare relaxed feeling of bliss. The brain seals this condition — it is beneficial to suffer. Of course, when you're not in much pain and the temperature is so-so.

But childhood is over, and the habit of manipulating the environment to get additional benefits has formed. And then it's easiest to say, "I'm depressed." Translated, it means: "I don't want to study, work, or perform duties." By the way, it is important to note that a person really gets discouraged. His intention to suffer is being fulfilled. He's not cheating. He feels an increased horseradishness throughout his body.

A person is being treated for depression. They give him pills, have therapeutic conversations, but he still doesn't want to heal. Because as soon as he feels healthy, he will have to live.

And living is taking responsibility. For your achievements. For your money. For his relationships with people.

Drop the kaku!

All people who are currently in a state of depression need to remember: it will never be the way you want it to be throughout your life. It may be better or worse, but what you imagined won't happen. Although 90 percent of biological needs are constantly being met. I hope you have had the opportunity to verify this. And in situations where you do push through a naughty world, you don't take into account the future...

For example, his partner treats someone inappropriately at the courtship stage: humiliates, cheats, cheats, etc. according to the list. But "someone" decides that this is "his destiny" and he will endure. He tolerates, does not break up the relationship, bores, asks, waits and gets the result — a wedding / cohabitation. A temporary state of euphoria and victory over reality. Such people especially like to write posts on social networks about the "vicissitudes of fortune", about how well they did, that they forgave everything... Ay-ay-ay! But now they have received a prize in the form of "my man".

And then? Then my favorite heading comes into effect — "the years have passed." Time passes and collapse ensues. Only now have people had children, gained credits, and taken lovers/mistresses. In general, they are mired in the ailments of social addictions. They are already constantly fighting, hating each other and making everyone around them unhappy. And again they talk about fate and global injustice.

Question: "And what prevented you from breaking up during that period when you felt that something was wrong with the relationship"? If I want to cheat on her/him, then I don't need to go back. If I am being betrayed, then why do I confess stupid behavior over and over again? They clearly show me — drop the poop! And do it now, otherwise it will be worse later...

Analyze: it is pride that makes you fight for someone who is hurting. The ego wants this person to be with you, because such a result is associated with victory. Victory will be short-lived and dull, and suffering will be long and inconsolable.

The pain of trampling on self-importance always accompanies stupidity...

Is suffering a bad thing?

So is the suffering of 95 percent of the world's population a bad thing? Maybe you regard the current time as a punishment? Viruses, financial crises, political wars — did God personally not love humanity? Ha! It is during the period of suffering that you are closest to this most mysterious state of awareness.

Your actions to overcome pain are a challenge for the brain. The brain is a hundred billion neurons that pays attention to you. Now this global space technology evaluates you not as an ordinary carrier, to whom neural networks habitually send commands, subordinating biological needs and depriving free will. Moving through the pain, you finally begin to interact with the brain. And already you are sending him a signal:

— I feel bad, but I'm acting. And I will continue to act. My intention to change the settings imposed on me will solve the situation in any case. I know that what I wanted didn't happen, so I'm suffering. But now I'll do better.

And in support of you, I responsibly declare: Yes, It will be Better.

P.S.

We will talk about how to suffer in such a way as to use this condition most effectively for the body and brain in the material Flights to despair: how to suffer correctly?.